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The Overwhelmed Brain

Everything is good except the idea of marriage

The Overwhelmed Brain

Paul Colaianni: Emotional Abuse and Relationship Expert

Education, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

4.52K Ratings

🗓️ 26 October 2025

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

A woman shares her struggle about getting married, feeling as if she isn't special because her partner has been married in the past. What is making her feel this way? Can this be overcome?

Transcript

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0:00.0

These are my personal opinions. Always seek a professional when you're making choices about your mental health and well-being.

0:11.0

Welcome back. If you have heard this show before, and if you haven't, welcome to the show.

0:17.7

I am your host. I've been doing this since 2013 and some people find it interesting.

0:25.8

Some people don't. And I like to get right to the subject matter. I don't like to waste a lot of time.

0:32.7

No fluff. Just want to talk about what I'm going to talk about right now. Somebody wrote to me and said,

0:38.2

this is my first time writing to you.

0:40.5

I discovered your show in 2021.

0:43.2

So, as of this recording, four years ago,

0:46.1

when I first started my personal development journey,

0:49.1

it has become such an impactful part of my growth.

0:51.5

So thank you for that.

0:53.4

You are welcome. I want to ask for some

0:56.0

advice that I've already asked friends and I'm currently seeking therapy about. I'm in a relationship

1:02.2

that's just over a year old. It's a same-sex relationship and we're both women. Not sure if that

1:07.9

matters, but I don't think I've ever heard about gay people on the show.

1:11.7

Let me just address that right now.

1:13.8

I have talked about all kinds.

1:16.9

Everyone.

1:18.0

There are a lot of heterosexual relationships that I talk about, but there are those that

1:24.5

are gay and some of them are polyamory and some people are trans.

1:30.4

And I mean, I talk about everyone and everything and everything is allowed because we're all people.

1:35.7

Now you know some of my values.

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