Hello, this is Graham Cook. Welcome to the Brilliant Perspective's Podcast.

I want to talk to you today about really how to interact with people who don't want to interact with you.

And it's just a simple concept and it's this everyone in the world is advertising. I mean everybody.

7.3 billion people and we're all advertising every day all through the day.

When you listen to how people talk, they're advertising. So every word or action tells you something about that person

and what they see, what they think, and what they believe about themselves.

So people who are living in negativity,

very often the first things out of their mouth is, you know aren't you worried that aren't you fearful that what if this goes wrong and you can look into their heart into into their mind, into their voice, and realize this person doesn't

have any peace. They believe that stress is a norm. They believe that everything around us is fearful. And what it means is they don't really

have a place on the inside where they feel safe, where they feel secure, where they're trusting.

So they're often victims of circumstances,

victims of situations.

When you listen to something that people are saying, you'll often hear what they don't know.

Like for example, every time I hear a Christian do something, say something judgmental you know I'm sad they're thinking really

but if you're not read Matthew 7 where Jesus said specifically don't judge or you will be judged.

He said from the way you judge you'll be judged and by your own standard of measure it will be measured to you in return.

It's like if you really understood how that works you would never make a judgment ever again.

So what you're listening to there is a person who doesn't really,

maybe they don't read the Bible that much,

or maybe they just don't take it seriously,

or maybe they think that the flesh is actually the only way to live in this world

and not in the spirit. I don't know, but they're advertising something. That's the point I'm making.

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