Welcome to Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore.

I was messing around on YouTube the other day and I came across a highlight reel of some of Barbara

Walters interviews. I've done an episode on Barbara Walters before because I love that woman I love how she was so fierce and herself and

and passionate about the work that she did but anyway I digress I ended up being fed a

YouTube video on some of her interview clips that were powerful

and punchy, how she got really good information out of people.

And something came across in one of these interviews that I've just been thinking about and I thought I've got to do a pot on this and I want to hear what you think about it too.

Definitely please DM me. I'm at Susie. More on Instagram. I want to see what comes up for you. But this was actually an interview clip with Scarlett Johanson, the actress and what Barbara asked her was, you know, what's it taken you a long time to learn?

Or, you know, what have you, what's your life philosophy? And what she answered was interesting and I thought oh yes I agree with this and I want to think

about it some more. It's this my friend. Whenever you lose something there's a gain and whenever you gain

something there's a loss. Hmm let me repeat that.

When you lose something, there's a gain.

And when you gain something, there's a loss.

interesting, isn't it?

Because sometimes we think when we lose something, it's terrible,

and when we gain something it's brilliant.

But life really is almost like this parallel,

there's almost like this duality to our decisions to how our life unfolds and I think you know where

has that been true for me where has it been true for you I can think you know maybe

when I lose something so I think you know I lost my first

marriage if I was to put it in terms of loss there was a huge gain I had to develop

and stretch and understand so much who I am and who I want. Maybe you've lost a job.

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