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Welcome to the Jill on Money Show. It's Sunday, May 12th, and we are here this weekend talking

about how to have hard conversations with your loved ones about their money, their

wishes, their estate. We have a special guest. Her name is Pamela Perone Benson.

She's the Vice President of Advanced Planning at Fidelity Investments, and this interview is a paid sponsorship

by Fidelity Investments.

Let's get into this interview with Pamela because we are going to talk about the emotional aspects of providing advice to people who are going through

this estate planning wealth transfer process. Here's the second part of our interview with Pamela Perron Benson.

So I mean given that it is very emotional and having maybe a little minor in psychology

wouldn't hoyt, I think when we're talking inter- a little

shrink slash estate-planing

I want you to put your little shrink slash estate planning attorney hat on right now.

I hear from a lot of people probably because we have an audience of

some very wealthy, some middle, some not so wealthy, but everyone has the same sort of underneath the the hood a little worry about

like I'm not sure I want to just give my kids this money like how can I help my kids out both during my life and after death, but I don't want to

necessarily enable them? And I think it's so tricky.

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