Erratic, Unreasonable Behavior

Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

JLML Press

Kids & Family, Parenting

4.7 • 3.8K Ratings

🗓️ 19 November 2024

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

A mother reaches out to Janet because her 3-year old's behavior has recently become erratic and unpleasant, and she’s struggling to make sense of it. She writes that her boy is strong-willed, smart, kind, high energy and wonderful to be around. But lately he's quick to anger, throws things, screams NO to simple requests, is pushy with his younger sister and gets easily overwhelmed when disappointed. He even behaved wildly and disruptively in a weekly music class he normally enjoys. Janet offers some basic guidelines for responding that she believes can be applied to almost every kind of behavior concern parents face. She hopes you find this helpful!

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0:41.8	Hi, this is Janet Lansbury.
0:44.2	Welcome to Unruffled.
0:46.0	Today I'm going to be talking about, well, one parent's particular issue that she wrote to me about,
0:52.9	but really this is about almost every issue that
0:57.6	you bring to me. Because it's about the way that we perceive behavior and how that sends us off
1:05.0	into a direction that often isn't helpful and creates more frustration for us.
1:12.6	When children's behavior seems totally unreasonable, why are they acting this way?
1:19.1	That's because it is unreasonable.
1:22.1	It's impulsive behavior.
1:23.7	It stems from emotions, threat detection that puts us into dysregulation.
1:29.8	And this happens with children so easily.
1:32.9	But here's the thing.
1:34.2	Most of us, because we're coming from a place of reason with our children and we want our
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