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Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

Erika H & The Prison of Coercive Control - Domestic Violence, Narcissist Abuse, Emotional Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

Abuse Survivor Network

Education, Relationships, Self-improvement, True Crime, Society & Culture

4.7 • 792 Ratings

🗓️ 6 March 2023

⏱️ 72 minutes

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Summary

Erika's husband was delightfully charming, quickly sweeping her off her feet. However, within the first three months, Erika realized he was two different people. The first was the person she met, a lovely caring spirit. But the second person was the opposite, calm, calculated, and with a penchant for doing terrible things.  It's a story of financial abuse, coercive control, animal abuse, language, religious beliefs, social abuse, intimidation, stalking, post separation abuse, divorce, custody, dissociation, puzzle pieces, self discovery, sexual coercion, weapons, denial, recognizing abuse, isolation, punishments, single moms, lawyers, being homeless, research, and much more. *** TRIGGER WARNING - There is discussion of sexual coercion, animal abuse, and extreme physical initimidation in this episode. *** You can purchase Erika H's book by clicking here. You can visit her website by clicking here. If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online counseling from anywhere in the world, please do go to https://www.betterhelp.com/nap Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.  Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:30.2

On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Erica, and Erica was married to a coercive controller.

0:40.3

It's a story of dissociation, language, puzzle pieces, financial abuse, and self-discovery.

0:48.1

Music. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone.

1:18.2

I am Brandon Chadwick, and with me today, we have Erica. How are you?

1:32.0

I'm great. How are you? I am doing well, and thank you so much for being here. And if you want to be a guest like Erica is today, please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com.

1:36.9

Top of the page, there's a button that says guest form. When you click on that button, it takes you to our guest form page.

1:43.7

Please do read all of the instructions and either send us an email at Narcissist Apocalypse at gmail.com or fill out our guest form.

1:44.3

And please do read all of the instructions and send it in the format that we ask for.

1:49.2

And today we are going to hear Erica's story and a trigger warning for this episode.

1:55.1

We do discuss sexual coercion in this episode as well as animal abuse.

1:59.8

So if this is not for you, please do turn the

2:02.8

episode off now. And also in today's story, you are going to hear two different abuse

2:10.8

stories, but the second story that you're going to hear is the main story of Erica's story that we're going to be concentrating on,

2:20.2

but it's important to hear the first story as well.

2:23.8

And Erica's story is also, in a way, kind of still going on because there's post-separation

2:28.9

abuse that is constantly happening.

2:32.0

So I really want to thank Erica for being a guest on our show once again.

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