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Episode 90: Why Missionary Is (Secretly) Our Favorite Position

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.82.2K Ratings

🗓️ 9 February 2023

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

Is it OK if you and your partner keep finding yourselves coming back to the missionary position during sex? Does that make your relationship - gasp! - vanilla? Missionary often gets judged as being boring, predictable, or beginner, and a lot of us feel embarrassed to admit that we like it.

Well, take it from a sex therapist… vanilla is popular for a reason. Missionary can be wildly intimate, erotic, and even kinky when it’s done right. In this episode, we show you all the different ways to spice up Missionary. You don’t have to step outside of the box every night to have a smoking hot sex life; just a few tweaks can majorly turn up the heat!

Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode90

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Transcript

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0:00.0

In missionary, I can really have a great orgasm and that's particularly because there are

0:05.9

tons of ways to adjust the position.

0:14.2

Hello and welcome to the Pylotox podcast.

0:17.4

We're your host Vanessa.

0:19.0

And Zander Marin.

0:20.2

I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.

0:23.2

And I'm just a regular dude.

0:24.9

We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for

0:29.1

for improving yours.

0:47.6

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and manage your expenses the easy way by going to rocketmoney.com-pillow. Hey, Zander.

1:25.0

Yeah. What is that voice? It's my bedroom voice. Oh yeah. Oh yeah. Thank God, it's not. There we go.

1:40.5

Let's go, baby. Wasn't expecting this. Come on, let's go. You got to go, baby.

1:56.0

It's your intro. You just completely hijacked my intro. That was that voice is so weird.

2:06.3

It's not sexy. You don't want this. Who's the name of this alter ego here?

2:13.7

Big owl. That's right, baby. All right. All right. Come on. Pull it together, girl.

2:32.6

As I raise my voice to octaves. Pull it together, girl. Pull it together, girl.

2:39.1

Oh my God, big owl. I had no idea we were going to go in this direction. I mean, you were

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