Episode 89: How To Get The Intimacy You’ve Always Craved

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.8 • 2.2K Ratings

🗓️ 2 February 2023

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

Do you want more intimacy in relationship? If your answer was, “Yes, but HOW?”, then you’re in the right place! We’ve been together for 15 years and know from personal experience how a relationship can ebb and flow right into a rut. You’re too tired, too overwhelmed, too embarrassed by how stale things have gotten, and you find yourself in the land of stagnation.

Good thing we’ve come up with the cheat code!

Whether you’re looking for more emotional or physical intimacy, or BOTH, we have you covered. This episode is jam packed with tips for rekindling the connection, how to get your partner on board with creating more intimacy, and even some real-life feedback from couples who have used our advice to find their way back to each other.

Links & Resources:

Our Book: Sex Talks (available for preorder until Feb 7th)

Challenge: Intimate or Nasty (Preorders get $30 off this challenge)

Free Guide: How To Get Your Partner On Board For Intimate Or Nasty

Thanks ZocDoc. Go to Zocdoc.com/pillow and download the Zocdoc app to sign-up for FREE and book a top-rated doctor.

Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode89

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0:00.0	Well, I think a lot of people and probably a lot of men hear their partner say,
0:05.7	I want us to have more intimacy and feel overwhelmed because they're like,
0:09.3	well, what the hell does that really even mean?
0:17.6	Hello and welcome to the Pillotox podcast. We're your host, Vanessa.
0:22.3	And Zander Marin.
0:23.6	I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.
0:26.5	And I'm just a regular dude. We share the ups and downs in our relationship while
0:30.5	giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours.
0:33.8	Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips,
0:38.4	practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind
0:43.9	closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you'd had.
0:50.9	Thanks to ZockDoc for supporting Pillotox. ZockDoc is the only free app that
0:55.9	lets you find and book doctors who are patient reviewed. Take your insurance are available when
1:00.9	you need them and treat almost every condition under the sun. Go to ZockDoc.com,
1:06.0	slash Pillow and download the ZockDoc app to sign up for free and book a top-rated doctor.
1:11.4	I think it's safe to say that pretty much everyone wants more intimacy in their relationships,
1:16.9	right? Like intimacy is this thing that we crave. We really want to have it. It feels good when
1:22.1	we have it, right? Hell yeah, I want more intimacy. Okay, the problem though is that intimacy is
1:28.2	one of those big words that often feels really hard to define and when you don't have it,
1:34.3	it can feel really hard to figure out how to get it back. Like we've mentioned this before,
1:39.3	you know, that a lot of people like, how do you define intimacy? Well, I think a lot of people,
1:45.2	and probably a lot of men, hear their partner say, I want us to have more intimacy and feel
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