Well, I think a lot of people and probably a lot of men hear their partner say,

I want us to have more intimacy and feel overwhelmed because they're like,

well, what the hell does that really even mean?

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I think it's safe to say that pretty much everyone wants more intimacy in their relationships,

right? Like intimacy is this thing that we crave. We really want to have it. It feels good when

we have it, right? Hell yeah, I want more intimacy. Okay, the problem though is that intimacy is

one of those big words that often feels really hard to define and when you don't have it,

it can feel really hard to figure out how to get it back. Like we've mentioned this before,

you know, that a lot of people like, how do you define intimacy? Well, I think a lot of people,

and probably a lot of men, hear their partner say, I want us to have more intimacy and feel

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