Hey guys, my name is John Kim. I'm a licensed therapist and life coach putting

self betterment into a shot class because let's face it who's got that much time

these days. I come unpolished, unrehearsed, on purpose.

If you're looking for more of a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

Also I want to mention some big news. Journey is now affiliated with

Wanderlust. We're the only life coaching company to partner with them and myself

Noel and many of our catalyst life coaches will be at Wanda Lestratton, which is in Vermont, from June 21st through the 24th.

If you want to join us, you can get 10% off tickets using the code JRNI 2018 go to wanderlust.com and look for

Stratton I hope to see you there. So I'm going to break my own rule and pour this episode into a wine glass instead of a shot glass because I have so much to say about this topic.

How to find your personal legend slash discover who you are. So when we're born we are whole

right we are complete we are quote unquote perfect you don't look at a baby and see all the things that are wrong with him or you look at a baby and you see endless possibilities, you see potential, you see a blank canvas right and babies are impression less and then of

course with life there we start to get impressions, things start to happen, they start to form us, shape us, society.

But going back to when we're a child, so we disconnect with our moms, our mothers, and we start to develop a sense of self,

right? What we like, what we don't like, you know, what makes us happy, we start to get very curious about the world and there's a

there's magic age it's right before

school and peer pressure and bullying and all of that stuff.

For me it was around age 10. It's not like that for everyone, but it's that window window it's that magic window where you have

where the world is big and you are in

exploration mode where you are fearless, where you are super present, and it's, you know, it's before

high school.

I think also before junior high, right?

Because that's when,'s when other factors that kick in

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