Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship advice you don't want to hear. My name is Sierra DeMolder. And I'm Sam Blackwell. And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who wants to know what it's like to have a relationship with yourself. But before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners.

Correct. We are not professionals. We are not trained in any of this. So please take our

advice as you see fit. We're only here to offer our humble musings. So hopefully

shed some understanding and maybe some laughs about the incredibly rewarding, but mostly

confusing experience that is love. All right, before we dive into today's letter,

I just want to give a quick shout out that yesterday,

the day before this episode aired on Friday, July 17th,

yesterday, July 16th, was the eight-year anniversary of Just Breakup.

That's too many years.

Yeah.

I'll tell you what.

Eight years ago, minus or plus one day, we put out the very first three episodes of Just Breakup,

which you could actually still listen to if you wanted to make Sam and I deeply uncomfortable.

Yeah.

And nervous.

Really nervous.

So thanks for being here in those eight years with us and growing and learning and

leaning in and doing all this crunchy work with us.

So let's dive into today's letter.

All right.

Today's letter is coming to us from Sinnaman, two words, very cute.

Sinemann, whose pronouns are she and and they and who is writing to us from

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