Hey guys, my name is John Kim. I'm a licensed therapist and life coach putting

self betterment into a shot class because let's face it who's got that much time

these days. I come unpolished, unrehearsed, on purpose.

If you're looking for more of a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

Also I want to mention some big news. Journey is now affiliated with

Wonder Lust. We're the only life coaching company to partner with them and myself

Noel and many of our catalyst Life Coaches will beanda Lestratton, which is in Vermont, from June 21st through the 24th.

If you want to join us, you can get 10% off tickets using the code JRNI 2018 go to wanderlust.com and look for

Stratton I hope to see you there. The first thing I want to say is if you are a

father and you have an intention, right?

There's something on the forefront of your hearts that you carry and that is this that you want

to be present with your children or child.

And listen, I understand that life happens.

I'm not saying that if you are a perfect father because there's no such thing that doesn't exist.

I'm just saying that if you have the

intention to be present and of course present looks different for everyone and I'll go into my definition of what I think

present looks like but if that is something that is important to you, right?

If that's something that you put on high, that you want to be present for your child, and

I'm not talking about the execution piece.

So if you are lately have been working hard or been distracted or going through your own shit and life distractions and you haven't been around for your child

Fine, that's okay, but I'm talking about if you have the intention right the tension is honest to you then you

still count all of you fathers out there who are making an effort to be present I

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