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🗓️ 20 October 2022
⏱️ 49 minutes
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You come home after a long day, you see your partner, but you don’t say anything more than “hi” to each other. Something hilarious happened at lunch, but you don’t see the point in sharing it with your partner. You sit down to dinner, but have nothing to say to one another.
You find yourself thinking, “How did this happen? Is this normal? This can’t be what a relationship is supposed to be like…”
Well guess what? Not only has 90% of our Instagram audience admitted to growing apart in a relationship, but 1 in 3 of them are going through it right now.
Growing apart is so scary. You can’t understand how this happened, especially because you used to be so close. You wonder if you’ve already drifted too far to fix it. You’re afraid of the possibility of breaking up.
If you’ve ever found yourself feeling more alone with your partner than without, or if you miss them even when they are right next to you, then you HAVE to listen to this episode.
Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode74
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0:00.0 | Even though you know each other in your relationship, |
0:02.0 | if you guys are each changing, |
0:03.6 | sometimes you have to put more energy into getting |
0:06.5 | to know the person that your partner is becoming, |
0:09.7 | then you have in the past. |
0:11.3 | Hello and welcome to the Pillotox podcast. |
0:20.1 | We're your host, Vanessa. |
0:21.5 | And Zander Marin. |
0:22.8 | I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience. |
0:25.8 | And I'm just a regular dude. |
0:27.4 | We share the ups and downs in our relationship |
0:29.6 | while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. |
0:33.0 | Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date |
0:35.4 | full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship |
0:38.8 | advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on |
0:42.7 | behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. |
0:45.8 | It's the sex education you wish you'd had. |
0:50.2 | Today we're talking about growing apart in a relationship. |
0:54.0 | This is something that I think pretty much everyone |
0:56.9 | has had an experience with. |
0:58.2 | We actually pulled our Instagram audience |
1:00.2 | and almost 90% of them said that they have gone through this |
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