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Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Episode 738: Asking Too Much or Asking the Wrong Person?

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.91.3K Ratings

🗓️ 29 June 2026

⏱️ 35 minutes

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supply. Welcome to Just Breakup, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship

0:35.9

advice you don't want to hear. My name is

0:38.6

Sierra DeMolder. And I'm Sam Blackwell. And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody whose

0:43.0

partner doesn't feel like a partner. But before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon

0:47.8

General's warning, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners.

0:52.0

No, we are not. We're not professionals. We are not trained or licensed in any way. So please take our

0:58.0

advice as you see fit. We're only here to offer our humble musings to hopefully shut some understanding and

1:03.5

maybe some laughs about the incredibly rewarding, but mostly confusing experience that is love.

1:10.5

But first, it's Monday. So we're going to dive into a quick check-in topic before we

1:15.1

answer this Monday's letter.

1:17.5

The check-in topic is inspired by a quote I was rudely dragged by on Instagram.

1:24.4

Sure.

1:24.9

And I'm sure this quote is from somewhere else.

1:35.0

But I found it on an account called Rene Art, R-E-E-N-A-R-T-U-T-U-S-Score.

1:40.7

And the quote is just, imagine being bitten by a snake. And instead of healing from the poison, you chase the snake to understand why it

1:45.7

bit you and prove that you didn't deserve it. So, um, rude? Uh, that is rude. Uh-huh, yep.

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