Let's talk about sex. So Corey here we are talking about sexy marriage and helping people grow

through their marriages and this week marks my 23rd wedding anniversary.

Congratulations 23! That's awesome! I know this one is I think perhaps the sweetest we've had yet because somehow it was the year that we really really had to fight

To make it work there and there was a chance it seems crazy now, but there were several months off and on I would think this marriage is over. We just can't even make it.

Yeah. So to our listeners, I hope that you'll join us because it helps to talk about the stuff that you know for sure when you're going through stuff.

So for better, for worse, we're in it for the long haul.

Yeah, and that's a great congratulations.

Yeah, thanks.

And one of the things I've heard, this is actually from Donald Miller, the and he made a comment one time on a blog

about how a friend made a comment of you know this just isn't it's not worth it you know on a relationship and he said well that's

because you haven't fought for it something's only worth it after you fought for it and that's

there's some great truth in that statement of you value stuff so much more

when you really work for it and realize wow we could have lost this or there would have been a

mistake to give it up and you know I know when you're in the when you're in the

throws of emotions that just are in a huge

downward spiral you just can't see straight so it makes me think of that quote

this says more marriages would last longer if people

realize that the we say for better or for worse but that often the better comes

after the worse. Oh, great show idea.

Yes.

And however, today I want to address some reader mail to ask about about going from better

to worse to worse, know growing what happens what

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