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Bare Marriage

Episode 69: Let's Talk Sexual Favours... and Pain?

Bare Marriage

Sheila Gregoire

Marriage, Social Sciences, Science, Relationships, Sex, Christianity, Wife, Religion & Spirituality, Mother, Society & Culture, Advice, Family

4.61.1K Ratings

🗓️ 20 August 2020

⏱️ 36 minutes

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Summary

What do you do if you can't/don't want to have intercourse, but other forms of sex are actually uncomfortable?

Some Christian books tell women they should give sexual favors, because they're "simple" and take a "minimum of effort."

Today Sheila Wray Gregoire and Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach from To Love, Honor and Vacuum look at the complete picture--what this should look like in a healthy relationship, and how to think about it if one of you actually is physically uncomfortable.

Because, as always, sex is supposed to be MUTUAL.

Some links mentioned in this podcast:

All my Audio books--and the free book studies that go along with my books:

https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/08/audio-books-free-video-studies-and-more/

My Boost Your Libido course!

https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/boost-libido-course/

Our marital rape/consent/obligation sex podcast:

https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/04/podcast-marital-rape-consent/

And for more discussion on this podcast, check out the post that goes along with it!

https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/08/podcast-when-oral-sex-manual-sex-hurt

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

Check out her books:

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Transcript

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0:14.4

Welcome to the love, honor, and vacuum podcast. I'm Sheila Ray Gregwar from to love honor and vacuum.com where we like to talk about how to

0:17.6

make marriage into a passionate adventure and not just a giant to-do list and

0:21.4

we talk about marriage and sex almost every day.

0:24.6

We are coming to you from my closet.

0:26.4

Yes.

0:27.4

My daughter Rebecca has joined me and we are recording in here because the sound is the best in here.

0:33.6

Yeah, we still haven't gotten the little sound cube set up in my office at my house.

0:38.0

So... And for those of you who are listening on audio, you are missing my glorious bathrobe which is right beside me but trust me you're

0:47.3

not missing much also for those of you listening on audio you also are not able to

0:51.6

see the wonderful injury that I did to myself.

0:54.6

I have bangs because I am covering up a massive like bandage on my forehead.

1:02.4

Because on Saturday this makes me sound like really, like,

1:05.0

powerful woman thing, but I went to do a chin-up

1:08.0

and I went on the bar on the wrong side

1:11.0

and I pulled the chin-up bar down on my forehead and it bled profusely and I spent several hours in the emerge waiting to get stitched up so.

1:18.2

Then I had to come over and wash all the blood out of your hair. It was just a whole...

1:21.5

It was marvelous and I have to say I wasn't actually

1:24.0

doing a chin up I was trying to do a reverse chin up where you get yourself in the right position then you

1:28.8

lower yourself down because I can't do a chin up at all I'm trying to train and I just jumped up on the wrong side. So it was stupid and I did it but if you're

1:36.6

wondering why there's a big band-aid on my forehead. That would be why. That would be why.

1:40.0

So now let's talk about other types of injuries.

1:43.4

This is just gonna be one of those weird podcasts.

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