Episode 67: Melissa Hogenboom
Spinning Plates with Sophie Ellis-Bextor
Kat Rulach
4.8 • 527 Ratings
🗓️ 6 June 2022
⏱️ 75 minutes
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Summary
Melissa Hogenboom is a Dutch-born science journalist, now working at the BBC. A mother of two, she is also a documentary-maker and author of a fascinating book (which she astoundingly wrote during her maternity leave) called The Motherhood Complex, which mixes her own personal experience of motherhood with proper science. It’s fascinating, as is the documentary ‘A Mother’s Brain’ which is still on bbc iPlayer now. There’s so much that happens when you become a new parent and Melissa introduced me to the phrase ‘matrescence’ which is the physical, hormonal, emotional and social transition to motherhood.
We talked about how your brain changes and improves with motherhood (the opposite of what we’re normally led to believe!) and Melissa also shared one of the most surreal post birth stories I have ever heard - trigger warning for anyone squeamish - the story she tells about being in the shower is NOT for you.
Spinning Plates is presented by Sophie Ellils Bextor, produced by Claire Jones, and post-production is by Richard Jones.
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| 0:00.0 | Hello, I'm Sophia Lysbexter and welcome to Spinning Plates, the podcast where I speak to |
| 0:09.6 | to busy working women who also happen to be mothers about how they make it work. |
| 0:14.0 | I'm a singer and I've released seven albums in between having my five sons aged 16 months to 16 years, |
| 0:20.2 | so I spin a few plates myself |
| 0:21.6 | being a mother can be the most amazing thing but can also be hard to find time for |
| 0:26.3 | yourself and your own ambitions I want to be a bit nosy and see how other people |
| 0:30.5 | balance everything welcome to spinning plates Friday lunch time and yeah I've sort of dipped in and out jubilee things as a street party on |
| 0:42.0 | Sunday what's the weather going to be like I mean I suppose it's quite fun take kids along |
| 0:46.2 | isn't it's funny because we've just come back from a boating trip for half term and we saw |
| 0:51.7 | so much jubilee things including Windsor Castle. So obviously kids all waved |
| 0:58.9 | the queen on the way up and on the way back Mickey, my three-year-old, was naked and he did a very |
| 1:04.8 | special sort of body dance facing Windsor Castle, especially for Her Majesty. It wasn't a political statement. He's just |
| 1:12.8 | three and likes to do that kind of thing. Anyway, how are you getting on? I'm feeling pretty good, |
| 1:19.7 | a little bit wiped. Can I be very boring? I have some sort of weird sinusy cough cold thing |
| 1:26.4 | that I've had for nearly two weeks and it's really starting to annoy me. You know what it's like? Obviously with a cold, you're not, like, there's not seriously anything wrong with you. But colds are just that thing we're trying to do all the things you normally do, but you just can't quite forget about it. I've never had one quite like this before. I wake up in the morning, and it's like my whole face hurts. What is that? Is it sinusitis? Maybe. I've never had one quite like this before. I wake up in the morning and it's like my whole face hurts. |
| 1:50.3 | What is that? Is it sinusitis? Maybe. I've never had it before. I suppose I should be excited to be experiencing a new ailment. Well, anyway, I've had enough of it now. It's been five days of this |
| 1:55.7 | particular phase of the cold. Anyway, sorry, I told you it was boring. And what else is happening? I can hear |
| 2:03.0 | Richard in the studio. He's listening to live mixes of the tour that we did, because I think |
| 2:08.6 | we're going to put it all together and bring that out at some point on a final album. So that's |
| 2:12.8 | quite fun. I say it's fun. It means I'm listening to him listening to my voice, which I find very |
| 2:17.7 | difficult to listen through. I'm not very good at listening to mixes because it's got me in it. |
| 2:21.3 | What is it about our own voices that means we don't like hearing them recorded and played back? |
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