Episode 66: Stacey Heale
Spinning Plates with Sophie Ellis-Bextor
Kat Rulach
4.8 • 527 Ratings
🗓️ 30 May 2022
⏱️ 88 minutes
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Summary
Stacey Heale is a writer and former fashion academic and mum to 2 little girls. I have followed her on Instagram for a long time.
Five years ago her artist musician husband Greg was diagnosed with bowel cancer, on their second child’s first birthday. Stacey and I talked about how she then took voluntary redundancy to spend all the time she could with Greg, how she had to navigate first his illness, and then his death six months ago. She explained how she is now trying to establish life with her daughters - just the three of them - without Greg.
Somehow Stacey manages to make us both laugh even while talking about such a bleak subject. I can’t wait to read her forthcoming book based on the warts and all truth about death and grieving. I guarantee it will be funnier than it sounds!
Spinning Plates is presented by Sophie Ellils Bextor, produced by Claire Jones, and post-production is by Richard Jones.
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| 0:00.0 | Hello, I'm Sophia Lusbexter and welcome to Spinning Plates, the podcast where I speak to |
| 0:09.6 | to busy working women who also happen to be mothers about how they make it work. |
| 0:14.4 | I'm a singer and I've released seven albums in between having my five sons aged 16 months to 16 years, |
| 0:20.4 | so I spin a few plates myself. |
| 0:21.6 | Being a mother can be the most amazing thing but can also be hard to find time for yourself and your own ambitions. |
| 0:27.6 | I want to be a bit nosy and see how other people balance everything. |
| 0:31.6 | Welcome to spinning plates. |
| 0:39.2 | Hey, hey, hey, how are you doing? |
| 0:45.8 | Funny thing, I've had two nights out, the last two nights, |
| 0:49.7 | and I've been a bit silly and stayed out a bit late both nights. |
| 0:51.8 | I've had not very much sleep the last couple of nights, |
| 1:00.2 | but I've still been getting up in the morning and, you know, doing all the normal stuff. And then my three-year-old, Mickey, he's very, very clingy. |
| 1:07.1 | He's lovely. He's lots of fun, but he will not leave me alone for even a minute. So just now I've come out of the house to go and pick up my six-year-old from a play date and I had to |
| 1:12.4 | like run away from Mickey a little bit because I didn't have the right car seat in the car so I just |
| 1:17.2 | said to Richard oh I'm just going to get Mickey on Jesse on my own and so poor Mickey he was |
| 1:24.3 | distraught but I ran out the door and then, I feel like I can actually still hear him crying. |
| 1:30.6 | I'm like, not even in the house. |
| 1:32.9 | Anyway, then I got in the car, and then it was all quiet and calm. |
| 1:38.1 | And the journey to go and pick up Jesse is only 10 minutes, |
| 1:40.6 | and I thought, I just want to sit here in the quiet calm car for a second because I'm tired. |
| 1:49.6 | I genuinely feel like I can still hear him crying. |
| 1:55.0 | I can. I can hear him like absolutely screaming. What is going on? I think I might have to go and check, actually. I think |
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