Episode 664: Do You Want Couple's Therapy With A Man Who Won't Say I Love You?
Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 3 December 2025
⏱️ 32 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Think about cheese. |
| 0:02.0 | Make your thoughts cheesier. |
| 0:04.2 | Now add 100% chicken breast fillet, Chipoplae sauce and amadea cheese melt. |
| 0:08.3 | And it's giving the new cheesy chicken stack at McDonald's. |
| 0:12.0 | Did we mention it's cheesy? |
| 0:13.9 | Cheese. |
| 0:15.8 | Availments at the 4th of Jan, 2026 from 11 a.m. |
| 0:18.1 | Plus and participation may vary. |
| 0:19.2 | Subjects availability. |
| 0:22.0 | Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship advice you don't want to hear. My name is Sierra de Mulder. And I'm Sam Blackwell. And today, we're going to answer a letter from somebody who went on vacation with her boyfriend and now maybe wants to break up. But before we begin, we just want to |
| 0:38.4 | give you our Surgeon General's Warning, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health |
| 0:42.2 | practitioners. No, we are not. We are not professionals. We are not trained in any of this. So please |
| 0:47.4 | take our advice as you see fit as a supplement to other mental health professionals. We are only here to offer our humble musings to hopefully shed some understanding and maybe some laughs about the incredibly rewarding, but mostly confusing experience that is love. |
| 1:04.7 | All right. |
| 1:05.3 | Let's get into today's letter. |
| 1:07.5 | So today's letter comes from Tired Gurley, who are she her, who is writing from East Coast, baby. |
| 1:13.3 | Just a content warning for this letter. It does mention a suicide attempt. Hi, Sam and Sierra. I'm writing to both of you in a state of confusion. |
| 1:23.4 | Recently, I got back from a two-week vacation with my boyfriend and his family. While there were many amazing moments of connection throughout the trip, I can't help but wonder if we have taken a few steps back. After some context, I would like your input on when is it time to move on versus putting in the work and giving things time. I apologize in advance for the long letter, but feel free to paraphrase as needed. |
| 1:45.0 | I'm not going to paraphrase. I'm just going to read the whole letter. My boyfriend, 27, he him, |
| 1:48.7 | and I, she her, 29, have been together for a little bit over a year. The first six-ish months of our |
| 1:54.2 | relationship was casual, but we were only hooking up with and spending time with one another. |
| 1:59.4 | We only became official in the spring of this |
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