Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship advice that you don't want to hear.

My name is Sierra de Mulder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell.

And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who suddenly has a wandering eye.

But before we begin, I know that's...

A meandering eye, if you will.

But before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that

Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners.

Nope.

Nope, not even close.

We are not professionals.

We both have English degrees.

That's right.

We love therapy, but are not therapists.

So please take our advice as you see fit as a supplement we are

only here to offer our ever humble humble musings there we go ever humble musings speech impediment

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rewarding but mostly confusing

experience that is love. All right. Let's get into today's letter. So today's letter comes

from Girl in the Well, whose pronouns are she, her, who's writing from Land of Revolving Red

Flags. Dear Salmon Sierra, yes, L.O.L. Throwback. I, 37 female, have been a listener since a toxic

relationship and subsequent breakup back in 2019 that left my self-confidence in rough shape.

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