Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship advice you don't want to hear.

My name is Sierra de Mulder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell.

And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody whose best friend is cheating on her husband.

But before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that's here and I are not licensed mental health practitioners.

No, we are not.

We are not professionals.

We are not trained in any of this.

We are just two sloppy souls like all of you with microphones.

So please take our advice as you see fit.

We are only here to offer our humble musings, so hopefully shed some understanding and maybe some laughs,

about the incredibly rewarding but mostly confusing experience that is love.

But first, it's Monday, so let's do a quick check-in topic.

Great.

This check-in topic comes from a letter.

So this is from two old whose pronouns are

she, her, whose location is being an adult. Question mark. I'm just going to read it

because it's short. Yep. Hi, beautiful friends. Keeping the short and sweet as I go to bed. I am

a female 27 dating a male 35.

We are in a long-distance relationship and have been for two years together for four total.

Everything is wonderful.

But I live alone and I sleep with an old childhood doll.

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