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Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Episode 625: Why Can't My Hookups Make Me Orgasm?

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.81.2K Ratings

🗓️ 3 September 2025

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling with the orgasm gap Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Right, that's it. Come on. Lights out. You've got a test tomorrow. Just two minutes. I'm about to reach the next level. It's going off now. Yeah, whatever. Let's see. Where's the app? Oh, here it is. What? How? Oh, no. You're out. Better look next time. Mom! It's game over for late nights on school nights. EE Wi-Fi controls help you get them off the Wi-Fi and into bed.

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0:31.9

Welcome to Just Breakup, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship advice you don't want to hear. My name is Sierra DeMolder. And I'm Sam Blackwell. And today, we're going to answer a letter from somebody who's having a hard time with orgasms and many questions about them. But before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners.

0:55.6

No, we are not.

0:56.4

We are not professionals.

0:58.1

We're not trained in any of this.

0:59.4

We are not sex therapists.

1:02.1

We just, we don't know what we're talking about.

1:03.6

We're just making it up.

1:06.2

So please take our advice as you see fit. We're only here to offer our humble musings still.

1:09.2

We shed some understanding and maybe some laughs

1:11.3

about the incredibly rewarding but mostly confusing experience that is love and orgasms.

1:17.5

Man, confusing.

1:18.4

That's right.

1:19.2

Sex is confusing.

1:20.4

That's what I've learned.

1:21.3

It is confusing.

1:22.2

And orgasms, they are also more confusing than sex sometimes.

1:26.4

Where it's just like, how does this work why is this

1:29.6

happening why is this not happening i don't understand yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah and is the point to have one

1:35.4

who knows or maybe not couldn't perhaps not yeah who knows i wish i could like go back to little Sierra, like, high school Sierra who started having sex.

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