Let's talk about sex. I'm still blown away by just all the intricacies of sex lives you know.

I'm still blown away by just all the intricacies of sex lives.

You know?

You know?

You know, mine in particular.

You know, here it is, 19 and a half years into the relationship with Pam.

And, you know, so we've had sex a lot,

if you think about over the course of 19 and a half years.

But yet there's still times... course of 19 and a half years.

But yet there's still times where all, you know, the kids get that, we put them in bed and, you know, the evening is winding down and typically you know we have

the football game on or something going on and this is sexy marriage radio by the

way if those are you are first time listening

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Just do the little side detour for a second.

So I'll be kind of looking at her

and I'll come in from the kitchen

and join her in the den where she's working on something and she's been really

stressed with you know the end of the year and work and then just Christmas mess and

you know presents and all these different things that we do and and I and I want to make a move and I feel

anxious about making a move you do but it's like, okay, I have made thousands of moves on this woman.

What still brings about that anxiety? You know, it's like, okay, because I know if I get shot down. It's like, okay, you know it's like okay because I know if I get shot down it's like okay you

know that she's not packing her bag and I'm not packing a bag and leaving because of

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