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Pillow Talks

Episode 61: Putting The O Back In Mom: Reigniting Your Sex Life After Kids

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.82.2K Ratings

🗓️ 21 July 2022

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

Are you struggling to have a great sex life now that you’re a mom?

As women, we wear so many hats and have so many identities. We’re wives, girlfriends, daughters, sisters, friends, and mothers. But what happens when these identities feel like they’re in conflict with one another?

A whopping 91% of our Instagram followers said their sex life got harder after kids. We heard things like, “It’s hard to feel confident in my new body,” “Everyone always needs something, and I’m tired of giving,” and, “I’m just EXHAUSTED!”

In this episode, we’re here to give you practical tips to creating the sex life you deserve!

Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode61

Transcript

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0:00.0

Most people can't just go from hardcore mom mode into hardcore mom, but like, no,

0:08.3

you can't go from like, I've been a mom for the last six hours.

0:12.2

And then like, boom, I flipped the switch.

0:14.6

And then I'm like, super sexy, ready to go.

0:22.9

Hello and welcome to the Pillotox podcast.

0:26.2

Where are your hosts, Vanessa and Sandra Marin?

0:28.9

I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.

0:31.8

And I'm just a regular dude.

0:33.5

We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours.

0:39.2

Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice,

0:45.6

hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more.

0:52.0

It's the sex education you wish you'd had.

0:55.7

Today's episode is for the moms out there.

0:59.5

Oh, yeah.

1:00.3

We are talking about how to get your groove back after having kids.

1:05.0

That's a really dated reference.

1:06.6

Have you ever seen how Stella got her groove back?

1:08.7

I have never seen it.

1:10.1

I feel like I hear it referenced all the time.

1:13.3

Mm-hmm.

1:14.0

I think I was kind of young when it came out.

1:16.3

Yeah, it was like I was a little too young to really understand like what getting a groove back men.

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