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Pillow Talks

Episode 60: Help! My Partner Hates Self-Improvement!

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.82.2K Ratings

🗓️ 14 July 2022

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

You read all the books, listen to all the podcast episodes, and do all the meditations and affirmations. But your partner won’t even read a dang Instagram caption!

What do you do if you value self-improvement and personal development, but your partner just can’t be bothered - or even flat-out refuses?

In today’s episode, we’re giving you the tips and tools to get your partner invested in becoming the best version of themselves.

Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode60

Transcript

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0:00.0

I'm either good or I'm bad.

0:01.4

Yeah, I'm either good or I need to improve.

0:03.3

Yeah, there's no middle ground and there's definitely no shades of good.

0:07.6

Shades of good.

0:09.0

It's either like, I'm the worst or I'm the best.

0:12.0

That's standard is going to write erotic good.

0:15.1

If you say it's of good.

0:16.3

If you say it's of good.

0:17.9

If you say it's of good enough.

0:24.9

Hello and welcome to the Pillotox podcast.

0:28.2

We're your host, Vanessa.

0:29.6

And Xander Marin.

0:30.9

I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.

0:33.9

And I'm just a regular dude.

0:35.5

We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours.

0:41.2

Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips,

0:45.8

practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more.

0:54.0

It's the sex education you wish you'd had.

0:58.3

So babe, I know you have a cold today and you're not feeling a hundred percent.

1:02.1

But I just realized that there is a certain intro style for our podcast episodes that we haven't done in a long time.

1:09.9

Okay.

1:11.0

Which is does it involve me singing something?

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