Episode 607: It's Not An Ultimatum, It's A Boundary!
Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 23 July 2025
⏱️ 27 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship advice you don't want to hear. |
| 0:08.4 | My name is Sierra de Mulder. |
| 0:10.4 | And I'm Sam Blackwell. |
| 0:11.8 | And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody whose boyfriend told him, I'm not honest, but trust me anyway. |
| 0:17.5 | But before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that |
| 0:21.2 | Sierra and I... |
| 0:22.8 | Yeah, go ahead. |
| 0:25.9 | Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners. |
| 0:28.8 | No, it's like, it's like Han Solo, you know, when she's like, I love you. |
| 0:33.2 | I know. |
| 0:34.7 | It's lowered into the... |
| 0:37.2 | All right, anyway. So, yeah into the... All right. |
| 0:37.6 | Anyway. |
| 0:38.8 | So, yeah, we are not professionals. |
| 0:41.0 | We are not trained in any of this. |
| 0:42.4 | So please take our advice as you see fit. |
| 0:44.5 | We're only here to offer our humble musings to hopefully shed some understanding and maybe |
| 0:49.1 | some laughs about the incredibly rewarding, but mostly confusing experience that is love. |
| 0:55.9 | All right. Let's get into today's letter. So today's letter comes from David, whose pronouns are he, |
| 1:01.8 | him, who is writing from a city you'll never see on screen. Hi, dear Sam and Sierra, I'm reaching out |
| 1:09.5 | because I need an outside perspective and your opinions on my relationship. You've helped me before and I trust you can help me again. I'm a 23-year-old gay man and for the past three months I've been in an on-again, off-again relationship with a guy we'll call Alex. I call it that, but the longest we've been no contact was for four days, and we usually make up pretty fast. |
| 1:28.6 | Alex is 22 years old, and he lives very close to me, even though we had never met before we |
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