Hey guys, my name is John Kim. I'm a licensed therapist and life coach putting

self betterment into a shot class because let's face it who's got that much time

these days. I come unpolished, unrehearsed, on purpose.

If you're looking for more of a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

There's this photograph I can't find but I have a memory and you have an imagination

so instead of trying to go through my social media and dig it up I don't know years

ago that I came across it let me describe it so I have

very few photographs because my parents rarely took photos and so it's it's it's it's an old photograph from when I was I think around nine.

I'm riding a bike and I'm sporting like a bull haircut and I think it's like a strawberry

short cake t-shirt because my parents didn't know that was for girls and it's it's definitely a girl's

t-shirt not a boy t-shirt and my hands are outspread a la Jesus on the cross and I'm writing no hands I'm just kind of feeling

the the the breeze or the air and what's really interesting about this photograph I don't

know who took it but it reminds me of the

photograph when I took just a few years ago on my Triumph motorcycle same and I, and I don't remember this photograph.

I was in the canyons and there was a straight away

and the photographer was driving next to me and so I was writing with my hands out, you know,

no hand the bars and I mean not no hand the bars hands off the

hand the bars I had hand the bars and there was a breeze I was feeling a win

anyway it's the exact if you put those two photos next to each other, it's really interesting because, you know, one is the nine-year-old me on the bicycle, and then the other one is the 42 or 43-year- old me on a motorcycle and the revelation I had and why this photo

is important is because I always tell people that I think growth or expansion or, you know, being the authentic version of you the real version of you all of that

sometimes has to do more with a connection or a reunion than anything else.

And what I mean by that is, I think that if the goal is to be truly you,

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