Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship

advice you don't want to hear.

My name is Sierra de Mulder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell.

On today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who's having a hard time watching

her former affair partner become close to another woman who is also her friend.

It's a very specific description.

I love our listeners. I love I love living vicariously through all of you.

Oh my God absolutely absolutely yeah all right.

Before we begin but before we just want to give you our Surgeon General Zordid, which is that Sierra

and I are not licensed mental health practitioners.

No, never been, never will be.

Uh, so please take our advice. Never been, never will be. So please pick-up, you never know.

As, uh, I don't think it's in the cards.

It might be for you.

Everyone and their mother says you would be a great therapist.

I know, but that's just because I'm good at co-regulating.

This is what my therapist taught me.

So.

Yeah, sounds great.

You can make a lot of money out of that.

I do.

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