Episode 49: Why You Should Live in a FANTASY WORLD
Cara Says It All
Cara Alwill
4.8 • 1.5K Ratings
🗓️ 8 October 2017
⏱️ 25 minutes
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Summary
Has anyone ever told you to be more realistic? Well I've got news for you: reality is completely different for everyone. And nobody has the right to tell you what yours should look like! For years, people told me I was living in a dream world and guess what? I am! And it's fabulous. When I look around at my life, it looks totally different than most people's, but it's real for me. And your fantasy world can be real for you, too.
In this episode, I am giving you my personal step-by-step guide to dreaming BIG and embodying the woman you want to be.
This episode's POWER MANTRA:
"My thoughts create my reality. And my reality can be as fabulous as I choose."
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Style Your Mind, a podcast for women who want to design their thoughts, empower themselves, and build a beautiful life. |
| 0:09.0 | I'm your host, Kara Al-Waleba, best-selling author and master life coach. |
| 0:13.8 | I am obsessed with women on the edge of change, and I've worked with hundreds of those women all around the world to help them unlock the best version of themselves and fulfill their potential. |
| 0:24.7 | If you're ready to style your mind and transform your life, then you're in the right place. |
| 0:29.7 | Let's do this. |
| 0:35.7 | Hi guys and welcome back to style your mind. We have two beautiful, badass business babes sponsoring this episode and I am so grateful for them. This episode is brought to you in part by Melissa Ledger, coach relationship expert and creator of gumbo love. If your relationship is holding you back from reaching your |
| 0:55.4 | fullest potential, if you're done dating guys who don't appreciate you and know your worth, |
| 1:00.5 | please connect with my girl, Melissa. Learn more about her and her brilliant work at gumbull love.com. |
| 1:05.6 | This episode is also brought to you in part by Loho. It's tight season, ladies, and Lojo has designed the most gorgeous tights |
| 1:14.2 | with a beautiful stretch lace waistband that won't roll down or dig into you. |
| 1:19.5 | And I'm obsessed, and you're going to be too. |
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| 1:24.1 | There's a hyphen in between pre-order and get in on these beauties before they're in |
| 1:28.3 | store. All right, guys, can I tell you one of my pet peeves? One of my biggest pet peeves, one |
| 1:34.5 | thing that just makes my skin crawl, and that is the term being realistic. I remember being |
| 1:43.9 | young, being like a teenager, and having all these wild fantasies, |
| 1:47.8 | these crazy big, huge dreams that probably at the time did seem a little bit crazy to people around me, |
| 1:54.4 | but I was so clear and I had such a vision, such a strong vision for what I wanted. And I remember |
| 2:00.1 | sharing these things with people who were older than me, whether they were, |
| 2:03.6 | you know, older family members or bosses or people that I knew or worked with. |
| 2:08.6 | And most of the time I was met with, Kara, you're living in a dream world. |
| 2:12.6 | You need to be more realistic. |
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