Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship

advice you don't want to hear.

My name is Sierra Mulder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell.

And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who is tired of breakups.

But before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed

mental health practitioners.

No, we are not, we are not professionals, we are not trained in any of this. So please

take our advice as you see fit. We're only here to offer our humble museums to

hopefully shed some understanding and maybe some laughs about the incredibly rewarding

but mostly confusing experience that is love.

All right let's get into today's letter which is from Single Again whose

pronounced are she her who is writing from the Great

Midwest. I Sam and Sierra I am a 30-year-old straight female whose longest

relationship has been nine months.

Although that amount of time isn't very long,

I love hard, and I have been in so many short-term relationships

that I am feeling extremely discouraged

after another loss.

After dating my summer crush for three months and falling into levels of intimacy, routine,

and communication I had never experienced.

He broke up with me this week, citing that he didn't... citing that we didn't have enough in common.

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