Welcome to just break up the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the

relationship advice you don't want to hear. My name is Sierra de Mulder

and I'm Sam Blackwell on today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who is wondering if she should break up with her husband of two months.

But before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners.

Yes, we are not professionals, we are not trained in any of this, so please take our advice

as you see fit.

We're only here to offer our humble musings.

We've had some understanding and maybe some laughs about the incredibly

rewarding but mostly confusing experience that is love.

All right let's get into today's letter. Our letter comes from your awfully wetted wife whose

pronouns are she her who is running from a sea of doubt. Dear Sam and

Sierra a couple months ago, I, 30-year-old, she, her, got married to my partner of

three years, 31-year-old he-ham, let's call him Adam.

I'm writing this letter because I'm not sure I should have gotten married to my overall great guy partner.

To put it frankly, I spent the entire year-long engagement with a nagging question in the back of my mind.

Is this what you really want?

Well, I ignored the question and did in fact get married. my mind, is this what you really want?

Well, I ignored the question and did in fact get married,

but that same voice hasn't gone away.

I've had a really tough time over the last couple months

or so discerning between what my intuition is telling me,

and what's just plain old anxiety.

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