Welcome to just break up the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the

relationship advice you don't want to hear. My name is Sierra Mother

and I'm Sam Blackwell.

Today we're going to answer a letter from somebody whose ex is manipulating her into thinking

she did something wrong.

But before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning

which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners.

Correct we are not we are not professionals we are not trained in any of this so please take your advice as you see fit as a supplement to other opinions and professional

Voices in your life. We are only here to offer our humble musings to hopefully shed some understanding and maybe some laughs about the incredibly rewarding but mostly confusing experience that is love.

All right everyone let's get into today's letter.

Today's letter comes from Broke Free, but Broke Somebody,

whose surrounds are she, her, who is writing from Moved on Central.

Just a content warning for this letter it does talk about stalking

behavior and suicide. Hello Sam and Sierra and Spencer I am a 28-year-old she

her who has been listening for years this pot has been a guiding light when I was in the winter of my life thank you

I've contemplated writing in for a long time and I think now I truly need your help.

I broke up with my boyfriend who I knew for four years eight months ago.

We met a few months before COVID hit.

We were both in a city and had plans to move to other parts of the world, so we decided that we would

keep it open since we planned to leave the city.

But we would be primary partners.

I quickly fell in love and he expressed feeling the same.

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