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Real Talk, Whole Life

Episode 447: Basic Needs Don’t Count as Self-Care

Real Talk, Whole Life

Cloud10

News, Social Sciences, Entertainment News, Science, Health & Fitness

4.71.3K Ratings

🗓️ 12 March 2021

⏱️ 71 minutes

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Summary

This week, Stacy and Dr. Sarah dive into caring for yourself, with a focus on how meeting basic needs and personal hygiene don’t count as self-care. Stacy breaks down the different types of self-care and Dr. Sarah looks into the science of how self-care works. You can find the full show notes with links to the products and articles discussed on this episode here. Instead of a listener question this week, Dr. Sarah and Stacy tackle a trending topic in health-conscious communities. Stacy kicks off this show by speaking about this article about women’s tendencies (especially moms) to put others’ needs above their own. This often takes the form of attributing "self-care" status to activities that fill a bare-minimum, basic need. Taking a hot shower or going on a quiet trip to the store without the kids isn't going to fill your cup and allow you to pour more into others. Sarah laughs that a part of her wants to clap her hands over her ears and not listen. If any listeners feel similar ways, like if you don't call the bare minimum stuff self-care, then can't call anything you do self-care, Sarah wants you to know you are not alone. Don’t forget to subscribe to this channel and visit realeverything.com and thepaleomom.com!  If you haven't yet unlocked our bonus content, checkout Patreon for exclusive behind-the-scenes content and how Stacy and Sarah really feel about the topics they discuss. Your subscription goes to support this show and gets you direct access to submit your questions! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to the whole view. I'm Stacy Toth of realeverything.com. I'm all about loving

0:10.0

the skin you're in and being healthy inside and out.

0:15.0

And I'm Dr. Sarah Bountine of the Paleumum.com. I believe that scientific literacy is the key

0:20.1

to improving public health.

0:28.1

Welcome back to episode 447 of the whole view. Recent shows have been my questions for you, Sarah.

0:37.1

This show, we're doing a little upside down because it's a little bit for you. Let's be honest.

0:45.1

This is an intervention, isn't it?

0:48.1

A little bit. We were talking a few weeks ago. I think the beginning of February about this article that I'd read

0:55.1

that really resonated with me about basic needs, not being self-care.

1:01.1

And how, especially over the past year, moms especially. I'm going to use words like moms and women

1:09.1

for our six male listeners. I want you to know that you need to take care of yourself as well.

1:14.1

But this is shown consistently that this is, you know, a problem with women and mothers

1:22.1

that we do not put our oxygen mask on first. We do not take care of ourselves.

1:28.1

And we justify things like, oh, I took a shower and that was self-care.

1:34.1

Or I went to the grocery store alone. That was self-care.

1:38.1

And today we're going to talk about how that is very not self-care.

1:43.1

That is basic needs. I hope that your hygiene is your hygiene.

1:49.1

Just like everybody deserves and needs to take a shower.

1:53.1

You deserve a need to take a shower that is not an act of self-care.

1:57.1

This is already feeling very personal.

2:00.1

It's funny, actually, because I wasn't expecting this. I mean, I knew this topic was coming, guys.

2:09.1

And I did, I did like agree that this would be a good topic for an episode.

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