Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship

advice you don't want to hear.

My name is Sierra de Mulder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell.

And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who is feeling

shame over his role in breaking up his partner's marriage but before we

began we just want to...

Dammitburg up yet. Spoilers, we're not, stop it.

But before we begin...

I have way too much enemy for this episode.

Apparently.

Before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners.

No, we are not professionals, we are not trained in any of this so please take our advice as you see fit.

We're only here to offer our humble musings to hopefully

shed some understanding and maybe some laughs about the incredibly rewarding but

mostly confusing experience that is love emphasis on the confusing for this

upcoming letter.

Sure, sure, yeah, absolutely.

There's some things that are unclear in this upcoming letter.

All right, let's get into our check-in topic because it's Monday.

So our check-in topic today comes from a letter who comes from a letter by Help L-O-L-L-O-L,

whose pronouns are she-her, who is writing from Trauma Pending, which is a sad place to be.

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