Let's talk about sex. Imagine that a woman shows up to work one morning and she meets all her girlfriends at work and the girlfriends say hey you know what

you guys do last night she's oh man it's great we were intimate for three

hours last night.

And they were like, wow, tell us about it.

So she proceeds to talk about all the stuff that went on.

And, you know, nice dinner, maybe even a nice little stroll together, great deep conversation, sex may or may not have

occurred, I mean doesn't really matter, but it's just the whole idea.

So then the same scenario with a man shows up to work

and he meets his buddies there and he says,

well what did you guys do last night?

And he says, oh man, we were intimate for three hours last night. Well his

buddy's reaction is most likely going to be liar. It's because of the

differences that we have in the word intimacy.

Oh, it's such a loaded word.

It really is.

And it's one of those things that you think about,

when you think of the whole idea of sex

in the meanings that we place up on it and what we do and why we do what we do what we don't do and all the different things that come up to it, it's all comes down to meaning and it comes down to there's so many different types of meaning even among the couple

It's no wonder there's so many times where it's just frustrating

Where it's like I want to do this and why won't she and she wants to do

this but why won't I you know and it's all that kind of stuff just constantly

rears its ugly head I guess you could say. That's right so welcome to

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