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Her money comes to you through PRX. Hi I'm Jean Chatsky and welcome to her money on this week before Valentine's Day which in my house means it's time to head to the chocolate

chalet in Briar Cliff Manor, New York and load up on dark chocolate non-parrels.

Usually when I go there, I load on half-dark chocolate and half-milk chocolate

because I like the milk chocolate ones and my husband likes the dark chocolate ones but since it's

Valentine's Day and this is his gift because we don't do big gifts on Valentine's Day. I will just

get the ones that he likes and I will do my very best not to dig into them after he

puts them into the freezer.

Valentine's Day, by the way,

has become such a big consumer holiday.

I don't even think it was Christmas

when I saw them loading the hearts and flowers and other items onto the

shelves and the drugstores and the grocery stores.

And if you are in the single and looking category,

well today, you're in luck.

Because we have Cupids mathematician in the house.

John Berger, who is my friend.

He's a speaker, he's an author, he's an award-winning magazine writer. He's a speaker he's an author he's an award-winning magazine writer he's a

contributor to Fortune magazine but he's here today because he's the author of a great book

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