Episode 43: How To STOP Getting Distracted During Sex!

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.8 • 2.2K Ratings

🗓️ 17 March 2022

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

Have you ever been in the middle of some HOT sex and all of a sudden you start thinking about something completely unrelated? Maybe you need to get a babysitter for next weekend or you totally forgot to send that email to your boss.

Regardless of what you’re distracted by, it can be so frustrating and you can end up feeling powerless to your thoughts. You may even feel self-judgment or shame that you’re not able to stay focused during sex.

In this episode we’re giving you lots of practical tools for how you (and your partner) can navigate distractions and stay more present during sex.

Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode43

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0:00.0	Be curious about your distractions, because oftentimes they're there for a reason.
0:11.6	Hello and welcome to the Pillotox Podcast.
0:14.8	We're your host, Vanessa.
0:16.3	And Zander Marin.
0:17.6	I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.
0:20.6	And I'm just a regular dude.
0:22.2	We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours.
0:27.8	Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice,
0:34.2	hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more.
0:40.6	It's the sex education you wish you'd had.
0:45.0	So last night, we had some pretty spectacular sex, right?
0:50.8	I do believe we did, but we were just talking about that.
0:54.6	It was one of those catches you by surprise times.
0:58.2	I think we were both went into it expecting it to be a quickie.
1:02.8	Let's just get down to the point and then it ended up being really good.
1:07.2	Yeah, we were both kind of tired.
1:09.0	If you follow us on Instagram, you probably know we were in the process of moving.
1:13.0	We're packing up stuff.
1:14.8	We spent the whole day driving up to Santa Barbara, doing some things up there,
1:20.0	prepping for our move up there, coming back.
1:22.6	We were tired. We wanted to hang out and then we went to get it in.
1:27.8	I don't know. We just got started and it was like, oh, it's not a quickie.
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