We hear from Sony couples who are like, my partner just never wants to give to me and they immediately turn it back on themselves and go, what is wrong with me?

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And Zander Marin.

I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.

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Are we sexually compatible?

This is one of the scariest questions that can come up in relationships.

If you have ever found yourself doubting whether you and your partner are truly sexually compatible or not, this can be a really painful question.

Like what do you do if you found somebody who's such a good match for you in every other way, but it feels like the sexual compatibility just isn't there.

Or maybe it felt compatible at the beginning and now you're feeling like you're completely on different pages.

It can lead to this feeling of, is the relationship doomed? Are we not going to work out? What does it mean that our compatibility isn't where it should be?

Is there anything we can do about it?

Oh yeah, lots of big questions get stirred up by this topic.

So we decided we had to devote an entire episode to it.

And so today we are going to talk about what it really means to be sexually compatible.

We're actually going to share a model that I created about sexual compatibility, the six sides of sexual compatibility.

You like that a little bit racist?

It sounds exciting.

Six sides.

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