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Pastors Talk - A podcast by 9Marks

Episode 4: On Receiving Criticism as a Pastor

Pastors Talk - A podcast by 9Marks

9Marks

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.8698 Ratings

🗓️ 7 March 2017

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

If you’re a pastor, you’re used to being criticized—both fairly and unfairly. In this episode of Pastors’ Talk, Jonathan sits down with Mark to chat about receiving criticism well, the dangers of avoiding criticism altogether, and how to build into a church structures that cultivate a culture of giving and receiving godly criticism.

SHOW NOTES:

– What do you do when you’re criticized after church when you just preached your guts out? (1:15)

– How do you prepare yourself to hear what you know you need to hear, even if it’s something that your flesh will grate against? (4:40)

– Why not defending yourself amidst criticism is sometimes a good idea. (5:50)

– True or false: the more you fear God and the less you fear man, the better you will hear criticism. (9:40)

– What about the wisdom in using others—wife, other elders, etc.—to process current criticisms? (11:15)

– Do you have any words for the pastors who have cloistered themselves so that they never hear criticism? (12:35)

– What structures have you put in place to cultivate a culture of healthy criticism and encouragement? (14:40)

– Any encouragement for pastor who’s beaten up from consistent criticism? (16:00)

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to another episode of 9 Mark's Pastors Talk.

0:16.4

Have we had enough of them yet to call it episodes?

0:19.1

Well, you know, we've been...

0:23.1

Isn't this like the second one?

0:24.7

No, this is like the fourth or fifth, man. All right, all right, all right. Episode it is.

0:26.2

Well, here it is. Another episode.

0:28.9

Or just a talk. Conversation between Mark Devere and myself.

0:32.5

Nine Marks, if you are just joining us for the first time ever, exist to equip church

0:37.1

leaders with a biblical

0:37.9

vision and practical resources for building healthy churches learn more at nine marks.org

0:42.9

Sort of like car talk for pastors.

0:44.6

That's, that's, you know, that thought occurred.

0:48.2

I don't think we're that good, though.

0:49.6

I'll be honest.

0:50.4

I'm not that good.

0:51.3

I think you're right, man.

0:53.8

You're not that good. This think you're right, man. You're not that good.

0:54.6

This time, we're going to talk about, I'm going to ask you, Mark, about criticism.

1:02.4

You mean like me, me not being good.

1:03.7

We just encountered an exam.

1:06.5

Maybe I should talk about experiencing criticism.

1:09.6

How to respond to it, ways to keep it from defeating you, the dangers of avoiding it altogether.

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