Episode 391 - The Dr. Cloud Show - The Two Driving Factors of Life
The Boundaries.me Podcast
Greg Bowler
4.7 • 815 Ratings
🗓️ 30 January 2024
⏱️ 69 minutes
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Summary
Our life is driven by two key drives and they are often at odds with each other. Dr. Henry Cloud talks about how these two drives can be worked together. Drive number one is our need to connect and feel connected. The second drive is our aggression. When when we can merge these drives together it’s called drive neutralization and it will greatly improve your relationships and your performance. Written question: How do successful people think differently about outcomes? Sally needs help with an intrusive father that spreads rumors. Sarah has two boys going through crises and feels like her parenting skills are being criticized.
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| 0:00.0 | Hey guys, welcome back to the Dr. Cloud show. |
| 0:10.9 | Glad you joined us again. |
| 0:12.8 | I hope again, but if it's your first time, welcome to the tribe. |
| 0:16.4 | We have a good time here because we talk about life and all the real stuff in life. |
| 0:20.7 | But to do that, have somebody talk to unless you just want to hear my talking head. |
| 0:27.7 | Call me. |
| 0:28.4 | Here's a number. |
| 0:29.1 | 844-940-2774. |
| 0:35.4 | 844-940, 2774. |
| 0:39.3 | Write that down because you don't know what's going to happen |
| 0:41.3 | that might prompt you to call in. |
| 0:43.3 | 844-940 2774 is the number. |
| 0:49.3 | And before we hop in, just a quick announcement, we got a workshop coming up, a live webinar |
| 0:58.1 | that you can sign up for. |
| 1:00.0 | And it is called, are you ready for this? |
| 1:03.1 | Does God like my boundaries? |
| 1:05.6 | It's a guide to feeling good about your boundaries. |
| 1:08.2 | Because a lot of times, you know, especially people of faith, |
| 1:11.8 | but everybody else, too, sometimes we say no and there's a little voice inside that says you're |
| 1:17.5 | being selfish or a voice outside that makes you or tries to make you feel bad about it. And how do you |
| 1:25.7 | know? I mean, sometimes maybe we are being selfish and we need to think about that. Sometimes it's just not good or the way we're doing it. And how do you know? I mean, sometimes maybe we are being selfish and we need to |
| 1:28.4 | think about that. Sometimes it's just not good or the way we're doing it is not good. That's another |
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