Welcome to the love honor and vacuum podcast where we like to talk about how to make marriage into a passionate adventure and not just a to-do list and right now we

are feeling like it's a big to-do list because I am here with my daughter

Rebecca and we're a little post-do date. I am sitting on an exercise ball

trying to bounce this baby out while we record this right so we were

actually thinking about not doing a podcast day I know I promised the podcast on all

erections all the time where I was going to deal with all my reader questions

about erections but we're actually my husband and I was going to deal with all my reader questions about directions, but we're actually, my husband and I are going to record that I think in November now.

Yeah. And we were planning this Thursday instead just to make it lower stress, just to do pictures of baby.

But at this point even baby comes I don't want to put pictures of baby up until I've had a chance

to shower.

I'm going to be honest.

So the clock is ticking.

So we thought we would just have a bit of a conversation about

something that we're quite passionate about and that was a great discussion on the

blog recently yes which was we were talking about have we made life too hard

how we made motherhood too hard? And a lot of awesome

comments I will leave the link to that post in in the description for this

podcast. But what we really want to talk about is how you can feel like you have your life

together and it's really hard to feel like you have your life together when you're asking so much of

yourself because motherhood really has changed. Yeah and just relationships in general and lifestyles in

general I think too. Yeah like we ask we ask things for people that no one had to do like

50 years ago. We didn't have to have a social presence and you didn't have to have kind of like a brand in a sense in this weird way that everyone having Instagram, Twitter and Facebook kind of makes you

...