Episode 372 - The Dr. Cloud Show - Shorts - One Guaranteed Way to Ruin Relationships
The Boundaries.me Podcast
Greg Bowler
4.7 • 815 Ratings
🗓️ 28 October 2022
⏱️ 12 minutes
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In this highlight from the show, Dr. Cloud talks about one sure fire way to ruin relationships: Fairness. Why would fairness ruin all of our relationships? Because it requires perfection, and none of us can live up to that. This applies to all of our relationships, not just our closest relationships. We must give grace to get grace. To improve problematic situations in relationships we have to rise above the issues and find solutions or we’ll only make things worse.
Dr. Cloud's next workshop is called The Path. The Path is a life-changing online workshop that will teach you how to accomplish anything from New Year's Resolutions to your daily goals to your biggest and boldest dreams. If you can't attend live, don't worry, you can stream the recording as much as you like. To find out more about it go to https://Boundaries.me/path
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hey everyone, welcome back to the podcast. |
| 0:10.0 | This is Albi, the producer of the Dr. Cloud Show. |
| 0:12.9 | Thanks so much for taking some time out of your day to join us. |
| 0:15.7 | On this highlight, Dr. Cloud's going to talk about something that might be a little bit counterintuitive, |
| 0:20.0 | but I think we all sort of know, which is that there is one really easy way to ruin all of |
| 0:24.7 | your relationships. |
| 0:26.4 | And that is by trying to play fair. |
| 0:29.4 | Fairness is not fair to your relationships. |
| 0:33.6 | Why? |
| 0:34.1 | Why is it that fairness doesn't work? |
| 0:35.6 | Well, Dr. Claude's going to go into that in this short highlight here, but one key reason is that it requires perfection, and it requires perfection that none of us can live up to. To improve problematic situations in our relationships, we have to rise above the issues in order to fix them. We can't ask the issues to work themselves out. And the only way to do that |
| 0:55.2 | is to get above the injustice and fix the issue at hand rather than trying to litigate the problem. |
| 1:02.4 | And Dr. Cloud will go into that too. And I'd like to take a brief minute here to talk to you |
| 1:06.1 | about Dr. Cloud's upcoming workshop. It's called The Path. It's a set of tools and knowledge that you'll |
| 1:11.3 | use for the rest of your life when it comes to accomplishing any goal, big or small. Whether you're |
| 1:16.0 | looking to get ready for that New Year's resolution or whether you're just working on something |
| 1:20.7 | and you need to get more structure involved in that, this is going to help. It's on December 5th at 5 p.m. Pacific. You can stream it later at your convenience |
| 1:28.1 | as much as you like with your purchase. It's on sale right now, so check it out. That's |
| 1:33.0 | www.boundaries.me forward slash path or click the link in the description to find out more. |
| 1:41.8 | And last, we've got a free week of coaching videos from Dr. Cloud. No strings attached. |
| 1:47.2 | Just put in your email. We'll send you the link to watch the videos. You can find out more about |
| 1:51.1 | that down in the description. And that is, in case you don't want to click a description and feel |
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