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The Hardcore Self-Help Podcast with Duff the Psych

Episode 363: Treating a Phobia of Wasps & Adjusting to Moving in With a Partner

The Hardcore Self-Help Podcast with Duff the Psych

Robert Duff, Ph.D.

Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Education

4.51K Ratings

🗓️ 25 August 2023

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

Hello, friends! I hope you are treating yourselves well. In this episode, we dive deep into two thought-provoking listener questions.

Our first discussion revolves around a listener who's grappling with a profound fear of wasps, known as spheksophobia. This phobia has had a significant impact on their quality of life, especially during the summer. We delve into the nature of specific phobias, their prevalence, and debunk some common misconceptions about wasps. Moreover, we explore potential strategies for addressing and managing such fears, emphasizing the role of exposure therapy and the significance of understanding one's fear hierarchy.

The second question opens a window into the world of a couple navigating the challenges of moving in together. One partner has relocated from a cherished home, and both are experiencing the typical growing pains of cohabitation for the first time. We discuss the importance of communication, curiosity, and compromise in this new chapter of their relationship. By establishing routines, rituals, and shared spaces, they can create an environment that feels like home to both, while also setting aside time for individual activities to foster a deeper bond.

Your questions always bring valuable insights to our conversations. If there's a question or topic on your mind, feel free to send it over to duffthepsych@gmail.com. For full show notes, head to http://duffthepsych.com/episode363.

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Transcript

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And it also may help to lead with curiosity.

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So what do I mean with that?

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When I say lead with curiosity, that means that you don't assume you know why she's acting a certain way.

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Instead, if it's appropriate, ask her.

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Hey everybody, before we start the show, I want to make a couple disclaimers.

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This show does cover a wide variety of topics related to mental health and life in general,

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and some of those could be sensitive for you.

0:22.0

I want to simultaneously

0:24.2

encourage you to be brave in consuming difficult content but also respect and

0:28.4

recognize your limitations. So please use your best judgment. I will never be offended if you need to skip a question or an episode entirely,

0:35.6

but feel free to feel it out, check out the episode and just see what happens. If you need to skip, that's okay, but you know, feel free to give it a shot first. I also need to say that while I am a

0:44.5

psychologist I'm not your psychologist and I'm not your therapist. This is not intended to be

0:49.3

direct medical advice and you should not use this as a substitute for professional help.

0:53.0

So with those said let's go ahead and get into the show. All right.

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Hello, Hello, friends of Alveray. All right.

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Hello, friends of all varieties, this is a hardcore health health

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podcast episode 363.

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I'm your host Dr. Robert Duff, aka Duff the Psych.

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I make mental health content for real people just like you.

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And today I have a question and answer episode with two really good questions from

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listeners like yourselves. Please continue sending me in questions for the show.

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It's very, very helpful.

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