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the UK's freshest streaming service. Welcome to Just Break Up the the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the

relationship advice you don't want to hear. My name is Sierra Demolder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell, and today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who recently

discovered that she and her husband had very different years.

I love this letter.

But before we begin we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners

Correct. We are not professionals. We are not trained in any of this.

Honestly, right before we press record, we were debating about how susceptible I am to being

in a cult.

And the answer is high, highly susceptible.

So maybe don't listen to my advice.

Please take everything all of the advice we give today as you see fit in your life.

We're just here to offer our very humble musing so hopefully shed some

understanding and maybe some laughs about the incredibly rewarding but

mostly confusing experience that is love. Okay so this week's check-in topic was inspired by a thought I had while driving recently, and then I immediately at the next stoplight, texted Sierra and was like, I have an idea.

So, are, you you know it is the holiday season for many of us and also like you know

winter break is coming up for folks who may be in school as well.

And the reality is that many of us are kind of like going back

to our homes, our childhood homes,

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