Welcome to the T-Love Honor and Vacuum

I'm Sheila. I'm Sheila Ray Gregoer from to love honor and vacuum.com where we like to talk about how to make marriage a passionate adventure and not just a to-do list and it is now October.

October is a really exciting month for me because this is the month where I'm going to become

a grandmother so yay.

But October is also really exciting on the blog because we are talking about the different stages of sex.

By which I mean that throughout marriage, sex kind of changes based on where you are in life.

And this week we looked at the figuring things out years

you know those honeymoon years we often think that the honeymoon years are

actually the best for sex and marriage but they're not when I did my

surveys for the good Girls Guide to Great Sex

what I found was that the years that women were most likely to orgasm, most

likely to really enjoy sex, were actually years 16 to 24 into your marriage.

So you've been married for over a decade and a half.

The kids have grown up.

At least they're teenagers.

They're no longer babies.

So you're sleeping through the night you're you've got

everything figured out you're not tense around each other anymore you're totally able to

relax and that's when sex really works.

The early years are not actually as good

as most people think they are.

And so today what I wanted to do

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