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Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship

advice you don't want to hear.

My name is Sierra de Mulder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell, and today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who has his cake and wants to eat it too.

But before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon General's Ward Aid, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners.

That's a surprising, I'm surprised by that summary of the letter.

I thought it would be something else like yeah yeah like break up with your girlfriend.

Oh. You know I'm trying not to like like shoot it too early you know like I want to I want to bring people in I don't want to just

be like here's the advice anyway next letter. We got to get those ad plays in.

And if you wanna listen to our show, ad free, you can subscribe on

Patreon.

That's true.

For as little as five dollars. All right here we go. Yeah, so

Sam and I are not professionals. Did you say that part yet? We're not professionals. We're not

trained in it. So please take our advice as you see fit.

We're only here to offer our humble museums to hopefully

she had some understanding about the incredibly rewarding but mostly confusing experience that is love.

I'm going to dive into today's letter,

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