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The Hardcore Self-Help Podcast with Duff the Psych

Episode 349: Compulsive Lying and Protecting My Sister From Our Mom

The Hardcore Self-Help Podcast with Duff the Psych

Robert Duff, Ph.D.

Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Education

4.51K Ratings

🗓️ 5 May 2023

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

Hello, friends! In this episode, I answer two listener questions.
 
The first question is from a listener who has been with her boyfriend for over 10 years, but suspects he is a narcissist and compulsive liar. She believes that a car accident at 17, which resulted in physical injuries as well as a TBI, may have stunted his development. The listener is struggling with her boyfriend's lying behavior and wonders if he's lying about their relationship too. She asks how to deal with the lying and gaslighting, and how to tell if her boyfriend's love for her is genuine.
 
In the second question, a listener shares her concerns about her younger sister's emotional development, given their mother's unpredictable and intense reactions to normal child behavior. The listener worries about her sister's mental health and emotional growth, and wants her mother to be more gentle and understanding towards her. However, the listener is struggling with confronting her mother due to past fear of her reactions. She asks for advice on how to approach the situation.
 
As always, you can send your questions to duffthepsych@gmail.com, and find the show notes for this episode at http://duffthepsych.com/episode349.
 
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0:00.0

Narcism isn't the same as just being an asshole, right?

0:03.2

Narcism is a specific constellation of traits and symptoms,

0:07.3

and that doesn't just mean being a jerk.

0:09.5

Hey everybody, before we start the show,

0:11.3

I want to make a couple disclaimers. This show does cover a wide variety of topics related to mental health and life in general and some of those could be sensitive for you. I want to simultaneously encourage you to be brave in consuming difficult content, but also respect

0:25.2

and recognize your limitations.

0:27.2

So please use your best judgment.

0:28.9

I will never be offended if you need to skip a question or an episode entirely, but feel free to feel it out, check out the

0:34.6

episode and just see what happens. If you need to skip, that's okay, but you know, feel free to give it a shot first.

0:40.1

I also need to say that while I am a psychologist I'm not your therapist.

0:45.2

This is not intended to be direct medical advice and you should not use this as a

0:48.6

substitute for professional help. So with those said let's go ahead and get into the show. All right, hello friends of all varieties, this is the Hardcore Health Help Podcast, episode 349.

1:16.0

I'm your host Dr. Robert Duff, aka Duff the Psych.

1:19.0

I make mental health content for real people, just like you.

1:22.0

And today I have a question and answer episode.

1:24.8

I have two really good questions here nothing too intense on the trauma slash triggers

1:29.6

front but yeah two really great questions from listeners like yourselves.

1:34.0

If you would like to send me a question for a future episode of the show,

1:37.0

send me an email to deftlypsych at gmail.com

1:40.0

or go to deftlypsych.com and use the contact form there.

1:44.0

As I mentioned before, the website is back up and running, but it is sort of a work in progress.

1:49.0

So if you come across anything that's broken on the website or anything that you can't find.

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