Episode 34: How To Deal With Family Members Who Trigger You
SelfHealers Soundboard
The Holistic Psychologist
4.8 • 2.2K Ratings
🗓️ 24 April 2022
⏱️ 52 minutes
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Summary
There’s a Ram Dass quote that says “if you think you’re enlightened go spend a week with your family.” Recently, we both had family visit and it brought up a lot. In this episode, we share what we learned and how to cope when you’re triggered around family.
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| 0:00.0 | Hello and welcome back to the Self-Healer Soundboard. |
| 0:08.0 | Today's episode is about family. |
| 0:10.3 | This conversation, as most are, are inspired by our personal lives. |
| 0:14.6 | And Jen and I just got off of two family visits. |
| 0:18.3 | I had my sister come into town and she had her twin brother. |
| 0:22.0 | So we thought what better an opportunity than to really begin to dive into this topic and |
| 0:26.9 | really begin to explore the different ways that we navigate our family relationships at |
| 0:32.3 | different stages of our healing journey. |
| 0:35.5 | It makes me laugh to even think of diving into the topic of family because family is such |
| 0:40.8 | a just a vast concept even really. |
| 0:44.7 | What I consider family may be very different from what someone else considers family and |
| 0:49.2 | both are incredibly valid and both are likely very triggering in some ways as family usually |
| 0:56.0 | means our closest connection or for many of us are core connection or the earliest ones |
| 1:02.0 | that we had when we were younger. |
| 1:04.3 | That's talking about specifically blood family or those caregivers around us who very |
| 1:09.8 | likely may not be blood. |
| 1:11.0 | I know a lot of what I considered in reflection family as a child was not blood. |
| 1:17.9 | They were neighbors. |
| 1:19.4 | They were teachers. |
| 1:20.4 | They were community members that really kind of stepped in and became my closest caregivers. |
| 1:27.3 | Though when we peel back and we think of family in general very often triggers and wounding |
| 1:33.8 | do come up for a whole vast array of very valid reasons. |
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