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relationship advice you don't want to hear. My name is Sierra de Mulder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell on today we're gonna answer a letter from somebody who can't figure out why she doesn't want to talk about her abortion.

But before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed

mental health practitioners.

Right, we are not professionals, we are not pros, we are not trained in any of this,

accredited, none of that that good stuff. So please take our advice as you see fit. We're only here to offer our humble musing to hopefully shed some understanding and maybe some laughs about the incredibly rewarding but mostly

confusing experience that is love.

Sometimes I think about like what the sensation would be like if for somebody who like knows that their letter is about to be read

like what like what literally happens in their body oh they've written they've

written us about it they like they'll say like they start hyperventiline or or they pull the

car over. A couple people wrote us and so they you know pull the car over.

Yeah. Because I as my like as my

teasers about like what kind of letter we're gonna write I've gotten like much

more specific I'm just like imagining somebody be like, oh my God, that's me.

Oh my God, yeah, it is you.

If you're thinking it's you, it's you.

It's definitely you.

All right, this letter comes from child free, not care free,

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