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Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship

advice you don't want to hear.

My name is Sierra de Mulder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell.

And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who is wondering

if he's in the wrong relationship or if it's just his

avoidant attachment style.

But before we begin, we just want to give you our surgeon general's warning which is that

Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners and we've only I've only read a book

about attachment styles y'all like It's not like I studied this

podcast I didn't know what they were.

I just was like I'm anxious and tense and needy all the time.

That's for example, I have a book for you. That's my response to literally everything is I got a book about that. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. This is all to say we are not

not trained in any of this so please take our advice as you see fit as a supplement

to your other stuff.

We are only here to offer our humble musings to hopefully shed some understanding and maybe some laughs about the incredibly rewarding

but mostly confusing experience that is love.

All right, it's Monday though, so before we dive into the letter about avoided attachment styles, we're going to check in quick about a topic and today's check-in topic is inspired by a letter from Josily whose pronouns are they them who is writing to us from the

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