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Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship

advice you don't want to hear.

My name is Sierra de Mulder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell.

And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody whose partner is skeptical that she could be a good therapist.

But before we begin we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners.

Right we are not the therapist here. We are just a you know a light supplement to

your mental health regime. We are only here to offer our humble musings

so hopefully she had some understanding and maybe some laughs on the

incredibly rewarding but mostly confusing experience that is love so please

take our advice as you see fit.

It's Monday, so we're going to do a quick check-in topic before we get into today's letter.

This check-in topic is inspired by a Buzzfeed I that I saw randomly scrolling through the

internet. We're not going to dive into the whole thing but just we're going to

steal an idea from it.

The Busfeet article is about quote,

petty red flags that ended relationships on the spot.

The title itself like totally threw me off

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